Regularly feeling like you hate your partner can suggest the relationship may not be working out. As distressing as it can feel to consider this possibility, it does happen. This doesn't necessarily mean you or your partner did anything wrong. You may simply not be an ideal match for each other.

Why do I suddenly dislike my partner?

The first is a fear of intimacy. Sometimes a person starts to develop feelings for someone they are dating, and this can suddenly scare them off. This feeling of being turned off or revolted by the other person is just a defense mechanism. The second is when the relationship has moved too fast.

What causes hate in a relationship?

Hate, within the context of a romantic relationship, arises mainly from a relational betrayal. Researchers have proposed a concept related to romantic hate, romantic jealousy, which describes the negative attitudes, anger, and fear associated with having a relationship partner (Yoshimura, 2004).