How to Get a Hot Girl to Like You
Alright, so you’ve landed your eyes (and heart) on a girl who’s a clear 9, when you yourself are barely a 6. So, what do you do? You do exactly what any guy in your position would do – hop on to Google and search for articles on how to get a hot girl to like you.
Well, you’re in luck. You’ve landed on exactly the best article on this subject for you. Keep in mind though, these are simply helpful tips and under no circumstances do they guarantee that they will work on you. Your efforts as well as the lady in question’s reaction to your efforts are equally at play.
How to Get a Hot Girl to Like You
Manners Are Important
You know what gets women wet? Manners.
Such a weird concept, right? I mean, who would have thought that treating a woman with respect and as an equal could easily let you slide into her life without much extra effort? Truth is, women (at least the ones looking for something more than a fling) will greatly favor a man with manners to a man who’s rich or good looking.
Shocker, right? Who knew?
Be Nice, But Don’t Be a Pushover
Nobody loves a yes man. OR at least, nobody with even a little ounce of self-respect and awareness loves a yes man. Plus, she is at worst looking for an equal and at best looking for someone who can be in charge. And if you’re just gonna rollover and do a belly up, guess who’s not gonna impress her?
Speak up when you feel your opinions differ. Just do so in a respectful manner.
Give Her All Your Attention
Another shocker, huh? I mean, what kinda woman doesn’t enjoy a man who’s sitting in front of her, typing away furiously on his phone, when all she wants is to talk to him? Is that all you need for how to get a hot girl to like you. In case you didn’t get that, it was sarcasm.
When you’re with her, focus all your attention on her. Keep your phone aside. Show her you’re interested in her and that everything else can wait. She will appreciate that.
Walk Slower
Especially if you walk quickly. Learn to match your walking speed with hers so that you can walk side by side. Keep your back upright and your shoulders loose. This will give off an air of confidence.
If you can also manage a little eye contact and smiles during your walk, that is even better.
Take Her Out for Spicy Food
Sounds a little out there, but hear me out. Spicy foods like Indian or Thai increase one’s blood flow. Your lady love’s body will feel a rush and her mind will tell her it’s because of you (and not the food).
Compliment Her
And of course, make sure you aren’t kissing her ass.
Always know that a pretty woman knows she’s pretty – she’s being told this constantly. So praising her for her appearance is pointless and quite frankly, shallow. Show her that you see her as someone more than just good looking – show her you see her as a person. Compliment her for her actions or her thoughts. That will instantly make you stand out in a sea of wannabe lovers. This is one of those super tips that most articles on how to get a hot girl to like you won’t cover.
Talk about Your Passions
Show her that you’re a man with taste who leads a life of interest. Discuss something you’re passionate about. Bonus points if it’s something philanthropic. Double bonus if it’s got to do with animals. Don’t have any passions? Well then…
Talk about Her Passions
Check out her social media and see what her likes and dislikes are. Read up on the subjects and then impress her with the brand new information that you now possess.
Dress the Part
A lot of boys underestimate the role good clothes play when impressing a woman. And no, I don’t mean a pair of jeans and your fav hoodie thrown of it. No. If you want to show her you’re serious, you’ll have to dress the part i.e. you will have to dress like a man. Bring out your suit, or if that’s too formal, then jeans/pants with a plain colored shirt (preferably white, grey or dark blue).
Hygiene
Yes, put on perfume but that doesn’t mean you should smell like a perfumery. Shave, clip your nails, check your breath, comb your hair, make sure your clothes are washed and ironed…and everything else your mum told you to take care of but you never did. This is one of the most important tips to keep in mind when working on how to get a hot girl to like you.
Have Interesting Social Media Accounts
If she’s interested in you, then the first thing she’s gonna do is look you up on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram. And what do you think is gonna happen if all she’s gonna see are pictures of you half naked, getting drunk or baked at parties?
Clean up your profile. Start working on it before you approach her. Upload pictures of you doing interesting things, meeting new people or visiting new places. Obviously, put them up only if you genuinely do such stuff, because otherwise you will not only be misleading her, you’ll be paving a way to getting dumped sooner than you can anticipate. Because there’s no way you can fool a woman into believing you’re really someone you aren’t.
tips? things to do?
I’m 21 and I am really plain. I get told that I am pretty whenever I am dressed up, but that’s hardly ever. I’m tired of this average look I have. I’m stuck in a rut and I need a complete image overhaul
i know that nobody is perfect but I do want to be that hot girl that turns heads when she walks in a room.
does anyone have any tips on how to do this? like hair, makeup, clothes, body.
Most Helpful Guys
Theres just sooo many things a girl can do to get better looking. Like you don’t even know.
Okay where do I start, lets go top to bottom:
Hair- First of all, you gotta get a hair style that has to go with your face shape. You can be an egg–head, circle, oval, heart, diamond, etc. etc. etc. “How will I know what hair style suits my head?” You gotta ask that to other girls, look at other girls, and probably/possibly your hair stylist (leave that for last because not all hair stylists are pro. ). Id say the MAIN thing you gotta do is just look around on the tv, internet, school, mall, ANYWHERE you see a “hott” girl, look at her face structure and her hair style, you’re bound to look at one that’s gunna have similar features to ures, and you can idealize from that.
Next, comes. face- Oh d00d this is where most of the girls IMO f*** up. First of all, you should really really pay attention to how healthy your face is and should be. Acne, blemishes, blackheads, oilly surfaces, etc. are unattractive and aren’t the best for your face (healthwise). Next up, get some make up that’s gunna look good on you. Once again. look around and see how other girls look with certain make up. now here’s the important part: PUT IT ON RIGHT. I swear, there’s tons of chix who can’t even put on their eyeliner rite, got a cake-face, wrong color eye shadow, blah blah blah. Even if its the tiniest bit of make up, you better do it right.
Upper body- okay so this is where your creativity will come in along with your style. I’m not gunna tell you exactly what to buy because thatd be based off what I think looks good. anywys you can have a definite style or you can just mix it up with whatever looks good. By this I mean you don’t have to be tied down to purchasing shirts from only certain stores. If a shirt looks good or “cute” in the least expected-store, then buy it. Its whatever makes you look good. “How do I know if its gunna look good?” Ask guys rather than girls in this case. girls too but I mean if you ask a girl, she might give you an answer based on what she likes and doesn’t like. If you ask a guy, for the most part itll be an unbiased answer. A suggestion btw, if you got big boobs, try not to hide em. oh and also o to vintage stores, or even secondhand stores because those places sometimes have some unique sh*t, trust me.
Lower body – Hello jeans :D. hehehe. Bottom line is, this is where you show off your ass. Don’t get saggy sh*t, and don’t get jeans that take 20 minutes to fit into because theyre so tight (because it just moves all the “stuff” to your hips, making you look like you got love handles lol). Just get something that’s gunna really point out the shape of the booty. like REALLY point it out.
Feet/Shoes – Okay I jus gotta say this (to the not young girls), BOOTS CAN BE SOO SEXY. Like, wow. But only if you can pull it off of course. anywys. once again depending on your style is what shoes your gunna get most likely. but try to get something girly that guys
(ran out of space)
wont usually wear. (like flats). This can tell you also got a feminine and girly side to you. If you get skate shoes and stuff like that, its totally understandable too because those things can be the most comfortable shoes in the world hahah.
And last but not least, at all (in fact probably should be top in priority), Body- I’m jus gunna be really honest and blunt, most guys don’t like the obese ones, nor the stick-figure ones. Anything between that is acceptable. Bottom line is, you gotta workout. You might have a good figure now, but with working out it will be even better. Also, whenever you start exercise routines in your life, you gotta pair them up with the proper diet. Don’t go all crazy and obsessive about it, because then it just becomes an issue, but I mean you gotta eat healthier. I’m not saying eat less, I’m not saying eat this or that. I’m just saying eat healthier, that’s all.
I can go on for days actually about the workout and nutrition aspects, and I’ve left out sooo much things too like color coordination, clothes matching, etc. But I hope this gives you a tad bit of an idea of how you should start.
