Should the man plan the first date?

In many cases, the first date will set the tone of the relationship. An ill planned first date will generally result in an unfavorable experience and thus will not lead to a second date. Not to sound cliché but women love a “man with a plan.” It’s how we gauge confidence and assertiveness.

Should a woman initiate the first date?

“It’s okay to ask someone out on a first date,” says Birger. “It’s okay to propose, too. Not only is it okay, but it’s actually advantageous.” The advantages to women going after what they want aren’t even limited to dating.