But research has shown that the practice can allow polyamorous people to have their sexual and companionship needs met simultaneously, which is less likely to happen in long-term partnerships with only two people. Insider talked to three polyamorous people to learn why the relationships work for them.
Does polyamory actually work?
Yes, polyamory works if your desire is to have access to multiple sexual partners throughout the course of your lifetime. Yes, polyamory works if you want to get deeply in touch with (and process through) the theme and experience of jealousy in your life.
How do you know if polyamory is right for me?
To help you decide if a polyamorous relationship is right for you and your partner, start by asking these seven questions:
- How jealous are you? ...
- Is this something you both want? ...
- What is your (and your partner's) motivation? ...
- How secure do you feel in your current relationship? ...
- What ground rules do you want to establish?
