Understand that they may never commit.
But most often, we can't. And if you do convince them to commit, there are no guarantees the relationship will even be a healthy one.
Do commitment phobes miss you?
A commitment-phobe can actually miss you, but they'll convince themselves that they shouldn't feel that way. You will largely have an on-and-off relationship with them, much like your relationship with the diets you keep promising you'll stick to.
Can a commitment phobe ever change?
Fortunately, I decided to get out of my own way and gladly flipped that switch. While it wasn't an immediate, miraculous fix—I'm still working on resolving my fear of commitment—it was enough to move forward in the right direction. Long story short, the answer is yes: commitment-phobes can fall in love.
