Here's what the experts suggest:
- Acknowledge people and express appreciation. Say hello, thank you, and all the other niceties you know. ...
- Don't let rude behavior fester. ...
- Avoid rude people. ...
- Think about how your behavior will sit with others. ...
- Apologize if you do find yourself being rude. ...
- Believe in decency. ...
- Smile!
Why do I come off as rude?
Unfortunately, there are things that people with anxiety do that come off as “rude” to those that don't know or understand this disorder. Those living with anxiety have developed coping mechanisms that may come off as rude but are only a result of their anxiety disorder.
How do I stop being so rude when angry?
3 Strategies to Stop the Spread of Rudeness
- Remember it's not about you. Naturally enough, rudeness tends to make us angry. ...
- Remind yourself you're in control. When rudeness is thrust upon you by another person, it's easy to feel like you don't have any agency. ...
- Acknowledge your emotions.
