Warning Signs of Counter-Transference
- An unreasonable dislike for the client or excessive positive feelings about the client.
- Becoming over-emotional and preoccupied with the client's case between sessions.
- Dreading the therapy session or feeling uncomfortable during the session.
How can I be aware of countertransference?
Step 1: Increase your own awareness of when it is occurring
- Ensure you are aware of own countertransference.
- Attend to client transference patterns from the start.
- Notice resistance to coaching.
- Pick up on cues that may be defences.
- Follow anxieties.
- Spot feelings and wishes beneath those anxieties.
What are some examples of countertransference?
Examples of countertransference
- inappropriately disclosing personal information.
- offering advice.
- not having boundaries.
- developing strong romantic feelings toward you.
- being overly critical of you.
- being overly supportive of you.
- allowing personal feelings or experiences to get in the way of your therapy.
