The ear drum is often transparent and looks like a stretched piece of clear plastic. The drum is approximately the size of a dime, with the newborn ear drum the same size as the adult. The malleus is the middle ear bone which is attached to the drum and easily identified.

What does a normal eardrum look like?

Normal: The eardrum is pearly white or light gray, and you can see through it. You can see the tiny bones of the middle ear pushing on the eardrum. You see a cone of light, known as the "light reflex," reflecting off the surface of the eardrum.

Can you see your eardrum with a flashlight?

The only way to know for sure if your child has one is for a doctor to look inside her ear with a tool called an otoscope, a tiny flashlight with a magnifying lens. A healthy eardrum (shown here) looks sort of clear and pinkish-gray.