On average: Men think about confessing love 97 days (a little over three months) into a new relationship. Women think about confessing love 149 days (about five months) into a new relationship. Men think it becomes acceptable to confess love starting one month into a relationship.

When should you confess your feelings?

So when should you confess your feelings for someone? When it actually feels “right” to do so, when it doesn't feel forced because you need a prom date or desperate for a husband before turning 30 years old.

When should you confess your love to your crush?

The only time you should wait is when your crush is currently dating someone. Telling someone that you like them while they're in a relationship can make things kind of complicated. It's best to find someone else to crush on for a while, and return to the person later when they're single.