Disrespect comes from a place of upset, either with ourselves or the circumstances around us, so one of the best ways we can deal with disrespect is by listening conscientiously, asking questions and making sure we understand the other person's grievances.

What is the root of disrespect?

disrespect (v.)

"have or show no respect for," 1610s, from dis- + respect. ... "want of respect or reverence, incivility," 1630s, from dis- + respect (n.).

What causes disrespectful behavior?

Cultural, generational, and gender biases, and current events influencing mood, attitude, and actions, also contribute to disrespectful behavior. Practitioner impairment, including substance abuse, mental illness, or personality disorder, is often at the root of highly disruptive behavior.