* Punishment makes the child feel bad about themselves not what they did. ... It doesn't help the child learn to express their emotions, it squashes their needs and sends the message that their feelings aren't important. * Punishment, even time outs and taking away privileges, damages our relationship with our child.

Why punishment doesn't work with ADHD?

Punishment alone doesn't usually work for children with ADHD because it is based on the premise that the child willingly did something wrong and the consequence or punishment will prevent the behavior from occurring again. When children with ADHD misbehave, it can often be as a result of impulsiveness or inattention.

Why is punishment not effective psychology?

Punishment also has some notable drawbacks. First, any behavior changes that result from punishment are often temporary. "Punished behavior is likely to reappear after the punitive consequences are withdrawn," Skinner explained in his book "Beyond Freedom and Dignity."