noun Also pan·der·er [pan-der-er] . a person who furnishes clients for a prostitute or supplies persons for illicit sexual intercourse; procurer; pimp. a person who caters to or profits from the weaknesses or vices of others. a go-between in amorous intrigues.

What pander means?

1a : a go-between in love intrigues. b : pimp. 2 : someone who caters to or exploits the weaknesses of others.

What does it mean to pander yourself?

To pander is to appease or gratify, and often in a negative, self-serving way.