Psychologist Laurie Helgoe says introverts hate small talk because it creates a barrier between people. Superficial, polite discussion prevents openness, so people don't learn about each other. Deeper meaning: Helgoe again, “Introverts are energized and excited by ideas.

Can introverts like small talk?

Laurie Helgoe points out in Introvert Power, “Introverts do not hate small talk because we dislike people. We hate small talk because we hate the barrier it creates between people.” That's right. Rather than drawing people closer, small talk can actually build barriers between people.

Do introverts dislike small talk?

Introverts tend to dread small talk. They worry that it will be boring, awkward, or that they'll run out of things to say. But in today's world, small talk is difficult to avoid. Cocktail parties, networking events, and even the line for coffee at work may require a brief exchange of pleasantries.