For some men, pulling away could be a strategy to avoid getting hurt. They may have been hurt in a committed relationship before. So by pulling away, they're trying to avoid hurting themselves again.

Do men pull away when they have feelings for you?

Some men pull away the moment they realize that they're developing real feelings for you. Unfortunately, this can also happen at the very moment you're realizing that you're developing real feelings for them! This fear of love happens because suddenly there are important stakes involved.

Why do guys get close and then pull away?

Key Pointers. Men could pull away from a relationship due to compatibility issues, lack of space or emotional connect, unrealistic expectations, or difference in opinion. Based on the reason he is pulling away, you may take an action – either talk it out, take a break, or make adjustments.