Washed linen is softer and more malleable than softened linen, and each method has its pros and cons.
Does linen get softer after washing?
Linen Gets Softer Over Time Unlike cotton, linen gets softer and softer with every wash, as the pectin that binds the fibers gently breaks down. Water alone will achieve this—there’s no need for fancy fabric softeners. In fact, softeners may coat linen strands in a residue that affects their porousness.
Does linen feel soft?
Gently used linen feels soft and supple, while newer linen may feel stiff and harsh. Time, wear and repeated washing soften linen, but you can speed the softening process without damaging the fabric.