The parent in arrears might make an offer to pay a portion of the back support owed in exchange for the other parent agreeing to waive the remaining balance due. However, even if you both agree on terms, only a court can approve a settlement that waives child support owed.

Can arrears be erased?

The court has no authority to change or reduce the amount you owe in child support arrears. The court can only change or modify current child support obligations if there is significant showing that the amount is not fitting given the circumstances.

Can child support arrears be discharged?

There is unfortunately no legal procedure that completely discharges child support debt. While you may be able to reduce any child support arrears you owe to the state (see chart above), you will continue to owe some amount of child support until it is paid off.