You don't really need to confront the person, but try to engage in conversation. Just give them a chance to respond. ... After talking to the person, they probably won't admit it, but this will make them realize that you're aware of the gossip.
How do you deal with someone who gossips about you?
8 Things to Do If You're the Target of Hurtful Gossip
- Regulate your negative emotions. ...
- Expand your perspective. ...
- Practice self-compassion, and even forgiveness. ...
- De-identify from the situation. ...
- Consider how to respond. ...
- Give it time. ...
- Focus on what's going right. ...
- Remember that you are not alone.
How do you talk to a gossiper?
Limit what you tell them.
Try to avoid subjects which that they can exploit for gossip points, and give your friend very little or nothing negative to say about you. Talk about mostly happy things, and avoid mentioning worries or fears. Avoid sharing personal information about yourself or your family.
