How to Avoid Coming off As Pretentious
- Keep quiet about your accomplishments. People are already likely aware of the talents, gifts, and education you possess. ...
- Pay compliments. ...
- Give others credit. ...
- Don't be a know-it-all. ...
- Be quiet. ...
- Acknowledge your mistakes. ...
- Practice empathy. ...
- Listen.
What makes someone pretentious?
Pretentiousness grows out of an awareness the social self, or the version of oneself that exists in the eyes of others. Pretentiousness can develop from a genuine belief that one is better than someone else, or a sense of insecurity.
How do I know if I'm pretentious?
Here a few signs that someone is pretentious:
- They believe that liking obscure hobbies or having eccentric interests makes them smart or special. ...
- They use long words or jargon because they think it makes them look intelligent or cultured.
