Scolding your cat might be a natural reaction when you catch him misbehaving, but that doesn't mean it'll get you anywhere. In fact, scolding often backfires, worsening the problem or at least seriously confusing your cat.

Is it OK to scold my cat?

Inappropriately applied punishment can cause fear, anxiety and owner avoidance, making punishment the least desirable tool for changing behavior. Keep in mind that you are punishing the behavior, not the cat. Punishment should never be considered unless the pet has the means to satisfy its nature and its needs.

Do cats remember being hit?

Yes, a cat will forgive you for hitting her after a little love and treats. But cats will remember long-term abuse they receive in a household. This is because cats have strong survival instincts, which force them to remember abuse for a long time.