Someone who's standoffish is aloof or unfriendly. When you first meet someone, she might seem standoffish when really she's just shy. A politician who appears standoffish will have more trouble getting elected than one who seems warm and likable.
What does it mean if someone is standoffish?
: somewhat cold and reserved.
How do I not seem standoffish?
Being more friendly when you interact with someone
- Dare to be warm first. It's common to be standoffish if we're a bit uncertain what the other person might think of us. ...
- Ask a personal question. Ask how people are and what they do. ...
- Use a friendly tone of voice. ...
- Be positive.
