Affairs always end. ... Eventually though, the affair will start to crumble, since it was based on a foundation of lies and secrets. Less then 10% of affair partners will eventually marry, and when they do approximately 85-95% of those marriages end in divorce.
How many affairs start up again?
Approximately 9% of men and 14% of women said they had sex with someone else as revenge for their partner's infidelity. More than 60% of affairs start at work.
Do affairs continue after discovery?
Some affairs are discovered by the spouse, but even after discovery, the affair often continues unabated until it dies a natural death. If that's the way your affair ends, even if your marriage survives, it will probably not amount to much.