Temper tantrums in toddlers and children are developmentally normal. These screaming, kicking, crying fits are a part of typical development and allow our children to communicate their unhappiness and/or frustration about an event or response, typically when they do not get their way or something that they want.

Why does my 4 year old keep having meltdowns?

Autism: Children on the autism spectrum are also often prone to dramatic meltdowns. These children tend to be rigid—dependent on consistent routine for their emotional comfort—and any unexpected change can set them off. And they may lack the language and communication skills to express what they want or need.

When should I worry about my 4 year old tantrums?

If your child has temper tantrums that last longer than 15 minutes or are very violent, talk to a healthcare provider. And if your child is older than 4 and still having frequent tantrums, it's also a good idea to speak to your provider.