Studies show that marriages in which one spouse has a chronic illness are more likely to fail if the spouses are young. And spouses who are caregivers are six times more likely to be depressed than spouses who do not need to be caregivers.
How can I help my chronically ill partner?
Some Real Advice on How to Support Someone with a Chronic Illness
- Show us compassion and empathy. ...
- Reflect what we say and do your own research. ...
- Give us validation and believe in us. ...
- Show interest and support in our journey. ...
- Let us know that it's OK to not be OK.
How do you cope when your spouse is ill?
Supporting a Spouse Through a Health Challenge
- Listen and share time. Not sure what to say? ...
- Get informed. Well spouses cope better when they, like their partners, have accurate, firsthand information about their mate's condition, treatment and needs. ...
- Talk to practitioners together. ...
- Sidestep nagging. ...
- Accept help.
