Can a narcissist become obsessed with you?

Narcissists will often seem obsessed with you even after you have discarded them or they have discarded you. In order to understand why Narcissists obsess over their victims, it's important to understand why they are the way they are. First of all, Narcissists have no inner sense of value.

Why are narcissists obsessive?

The narcissist's very pursuit of Narcissistic Supply is compulsive. The narcissist seeks to recreate and reenact old traumas, ancient, unresolved conflicts with figures of (primary) importance in his life. The narcissist feels that he is "bad" and diffusely guilty and that, therefore, he should be punished.